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The Clothes - what to do with the clothes & possessions when someone dies

Posted on 28th June 2018 at 10:21

I remember vividly within days of my husband Kevin dying being asked about his stuff. Honestly! You would imagine that there would be a whole host of other topics people would ask about before this, but no. Everyone wanted to know "have you done anything about the clothes yet?"

If you are reading this and grieving yourself I bet you will have immediately noticed that these possessions which sat next to his skin have been de-personalised. THE clothes, not his clothes. "The Clothes", as if they are wild animals which left untamed & uncaptured will riot around the house (i.e. your life) out of control.

What to do with the clothes when someone dies

Widows Guide to Surviving Fathers Day

Posted on 12th June 2018 at 10:57

Whether you always made a big deal of Father’s Day or it barely raised a mention in your household there is no doubt that this year it will feel like it’s everywhere and unrelenting.

Continual reminders of the life you no longer have, rubbing salt into your wounded heart.

Unfortunately, however much you want to put your head under the duvet and not come out until Tuesday you can’t. You have to continue to be both parents to your kids who also are being bombarded with images of kids playing or bonding with their Dad’s. So what can you do to get through this as best you can?

Fathers Day when you're grieving sucks

Posted on 11th June 2018 at 10:05

Age is not a factor here, as in it doesn't matter how old you are.

If your Dad has died Father’s Day sucks. Yes I know that is an American phrase but it’s one that I think says it all really succinctly without swearing.

If you are a Dad whose child has died Father’s Day sucks.

If you are a Dad whose child has run away or gone missing Father’s Day sucks.

If you are a Mum whose husband has died Father’s Day sucks.

Posts from June 2018

The Clothes - what to do with the clothes & possessions when someone dies

Widows Guide to Surviving Fathers Day

Fathers Day when you're grieving sucks

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